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My girlfriend wants to go back to being an escort as we are short of cash – I hate the idea
DEAR DEIDRE: WE are short of money so my girlfriend wants to go back to being an escort. But I hate the idea.
I’m a 25-year-old woman and she is 24.
We have been together for three years and I really love her.
She used to be a call girl when she was studying but stopped when we got together.
We are finding money tough.
She said it doesn’t mean anything and it would be even better if I got involved too.
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She said we’d make really good money if we offered ourselves as a pair.
I’ve refused. I told her that I would never be comfortable prostituting myself.
What can I do?
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DEIDRE SAYS: Stick to your guns about not doing it yourself.
And explain that if she goes back to being a prostitute, she will damage your relationship.
Look at other ways to earn and economise.
If she doesn’t love you enough to respect your feelings, this relationship doesn’t have much future.
My support packs Debt Worries and Relationship MOT will help you.
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I was about to propose to my girlfriend until I found my first love on social media
DEAR DEIDRE: I WAS considering proposing to my girlfriend until I found my first love on social media last month.
My girlfriend is lovely but life is too short to be with the wrong person.
I’m 32 and my girlfriend is 31.
I thought we were good together until I saw my first love after 11 years without contact.
I was bowled over when I saw her. She’s as hot as ever.
Now we talk every day and the chemistry is there.
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She’s single with two young children.
We didn’t do anything that evening but I can’t stop thinking about her.
She wants to see more of me and I want to be with her.
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DEIDRE SAYS: Be wary of making a rash decision.
Old feelings have been reignited but could be a flash in the pan.
Are you up for taking on her kids?
Tell your girlfriend you are not sure the relationship is working and see if you can both change to strengthen it.
Meanwhile, keep it strictly friends-only with your old flame until you can be sure of your feelings in the long term.
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I don’t trust dream girlfriend after she told me she is bisexual
DEAR DEIDRE: I THOUGHT I’d met my dream girl – until she told me she’d had a previous relationship with a woman.
She’s 26 and I’m 32. We met a year ago when we bumped into each other in the supermarket and I can honestly say it was love at first sight.
Recently we played a confession game and she revealed she had a relationship with a woman before we met.
She insists she’s not bisexual – it’s so very confusing.
Since then everything’s changed.
My sister’s bisexual and I can’t help but feel jealous and wonder if they fancy one another.
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What if she ends up ditching me for a woman?
DEIDRE SAYS: Your girlfriend may well have been bi-curious before but, since having a relationship with another woman, decided she is heterosexual.
Your sister’s sexuality doesn’t mean she would make a move on your girlfriend – in the same way any brother wouldn’t.
Read my support pack Looking After Your Relationship to help you both talk this through.
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I want my girlfriend to try dirty talk but she won’t do it
DEAR DEIDRE: THERE is no greater turn-on for me than hearing my lover talk about all the filthy things she wants to do to me and I get really horny spelling out exactly what I see and like sexually.
But unfortunately my latest girlfriend is having none of it.
She says I’m dirty and not in a good way.
I’m 32 and my girlfriend is 29. All my previous partners have loved it when I talk really passionately to them.
I’m not derogatory so I really can’t see what the issue is.
I’d love her to let her hair down a little and I really miss this part of sex.
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I’m not enjoying our sex life as much without being able to express myself honestly.
DEIDRE SAYS: No one should be expected to do anything sexually they are uncomfortable with but it is worth talking to her and explaining how much you miss this aspect of lovemaking.
Ask if she would be willing to try some very mild talking while having sex.
If she is open to that you could potentially build up with her consent.
But I’m afraid if she is unwilling, then you will either have to accept her as she comes, or consider whether you will be happy in a relationship where you aren’t able to fully express yourself.