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My wife found out the real reason I started dating her – now she’s threatening to divorce me
A MAN says his wife found out the real reason why he started dating her and now she’s contemplating divorce, leaving him devastated.
The husband anonymously shared his story to Reddit, revealing that he originally asked his now-wife out to get revenge on his cousin.
The man now feels awful and isn’t sure what to do.
He explained that his cousin, Steven, slept with his crush in high school (who he named Stacey for the sake of the story).
So when Steven was flirting with a girl named Jane in class, the poster made a move on her to get revenge.
Jane is now his wife.
The man said the truth came out when Steven and Stacey – who had ironically reconnected – were having dinner with him and his wife at their home.
“We were reminiscing about old times and our rivalry came up,” he explained, adding that he admitted to liking Stacey before Steven slept with her.
“I then added, ‘But the rivalry ended up working out for me, I asked Jane out as revenge because I knew you had a crush on her, and now we’re married.’”
Steven and Stacey were not happy this information came out, as Stacey felt like a “prize,” but that’s not the worst thing that happened.
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The husband thought his wife was upstairs putting their child down – but he was wrong.
“I could see the horror in Stacey’s face and realized that my wife was standing behind me, sobbing,” he wrote.
He added that his wife has always been super self-conscious about her looks and he was the first guy to ever ask her out, so this was a major blow to her self-esteem.
“I started trying to apologize and explain that I love Jane very much NOW, I fell in love with her wonderful personality, her kindness, her intelligence, and so on,” he said.
However, his wife refused to listen to his apologies.
“Now Stacey and Steven have broken up and he is blaming me, but even worse, my wife [is] threatening to divorce me over this whole thing,” the poster continued.
“She says our entire relationship was based on a lie, and she will never be able to look at me, or our relationship, in the same way.”
The internet didn’t have many words of advice for the distraught husband and instead condemned his behavior.
“You’ve got no one else to blame. You objectify women. Your wife deserves better. Hopefully she reads this and leaves you,” one user slammed.
“Your poor wife. How absolutely horrible and damaging to her self-esteem and self-confidence.
“I don’t see you coming back from this. Maybe counseling,” a second person wrote.
“I would divorce you. She deserves to be with someone who finds her attractive,” another shocked user commented.
“Your entire relationship is built on some petty testosterone game.”
While the poster probably did not find much comfort in the public’s reaction to his confession, he might be comforted by the fact that he’s not alone.
A woman previously shared on Reddit that her husband threatened to divorce her if she didn’t agree to name their unborn child his family moniker.
Perhaps, they can support each other through these trying times.
Liz Truss slams ‘desperate’ Vladimir Putin for threatening to nuke the West
LIZ Truss last night hit back at “desperate” Putin for doubling down on his “catastrophic” war and threatening to nuke the West.
The PM ripped up her first major speech to the United Nations after the Russian president ramped up the invasion and called up hundreds of thousands of reservists to fight.
Liz Truss hit back at ‘desperate’ Putin in her first major speech at the United Nations[/caption]
Ms Truss slammed the evil dictator for sending his people “to a terrible fate” as the gruelling war continues, with rape and “barborous weapons” being used.
And she called on world leaders to fight back, saying: “the time to act is now.”
The PM dismissed his threats of nuclear war as just more “sabre rattling”.
She blasted: “This morning we have seen Putin desperately trying to justify his catastrophic failures.
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“He is desperately trying to claim the mantle of democracy for a regime without human rights or freedoms.
“And he is making yet more bogus claims and sabre-rattling threats.
“This will not work. Ukraine is strong.”
Ms Truss hailed the “brave, dignified” First Lady, Olena Zelenska, who she met last night in New York, and insisted: “We won’t rest until Ukraine prevails.
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“The Ukrainians are not just defending their own country – they are defending our values and the security of the whole world.
“That’s why we must act.”
Joe Biden also hit out at the Kremlin chief for “pumping out lies” and the world “should see these outrageous acts for what they are”.
On the risk of nuclear armageddon, he warned the deranged Russian leader: “A nuclear war cannot be won and must never be fought”.
Senior diplomatic sources said yesterday they were taking Putin’s nuclear threats “very seriously” but they would not engage in a battle of words.
‘Brave, dignified’
They said: “The threat either of using tactical nuclear weapons, which would be tragic, or using bigger nuclear weapons is very real.
“We’re not going to engage in a battle of words about a nuclear threat from a man who postponed his speech last night, was shaking when he delivered it, and is now attempting to mobilise reservists who are attempting to get to airports across Russia.
“His lies are catching up with him.”
Meanwhile, Foreign Secretary James Cleverly will shame Russia’s foreign minister Sergey Lavrov to his face today in a dramatic showdown.
At a meeting of foreign ministers, he will call out Russia’s violations of law, expose their plans to fix the results of sham referendums, and demand justice for their illegal invasion.
He is set to say: “We can and must make clear to President Putin that his attacks on the sovereign will of the Ukrainian people – so clearly expressed as they fight for their homes – must stop.
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“His assaults on the UN charter and international norms that protect us will not be tolerated and that he must withdraw from Ukraine to enable a return to regional and global stability.”
Britain will also meet with the International Criminal Court’s Chief Prosecutor who is leading the probe for war crimes.